An Ego is a term which is hard to explain because it is different for every person. Many people spend their whole lives being driven by it and some don't even know about it. Ego is not positive because it tell you about the things that make you superior such as "I'm always right." Not only superior, it also gives the concept of inferiority like "I am not good enough" or "no one loves me". It also makes your life dramatic because it explodes with emotions like anger and jealousy. It is an attachment that make you feel worthless every single time. For Example, your friend got a new bicycle and when you demand it from your parents and they say we can't afford it, your reaction would be "life is unfair". It's not you who is saying this,it's an Ego who is saying this. Your Reaction should be "it's okay, there are many people who don't have bicycle but I have".
So How to Get Rid Of it:
Self-Awareness
Know Your Worth. Stop Complaining, Act Humble, stay grateful, stay loving. Don't go for negative thoughts. Bring Some Positivity in life. Be Happy for your Friends Achievements. Congratulate them. Meet Poor People, talk to them. Give Food to Beggars. Whenever you look at someone who is better than you, remember that you are also better than anyone else. It's not a one day habit, it's a process and will take time. Be patient and Practice it.
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