What Introverts Are?

Many of us misinterpret the introverts and concept of introversion. It is mostly taken as negaative and in weak terms but there are some qualities of introverts which not only makes them different from others but also more satisfying than extroverts. These qualities include

Shyness
Yes shyness, it is cinsidered a weakness but for some introverts shyness is not something related to fear of people. Actually interacting with too many people can be overwhelming. They like to be social but too much socialization can be exausting. For them peace is everything which makes them confident and happy.

Their Company
They are fond of their company  and it's not the people who are their companions. Their companions includes books, nature, prayers etc. Their company makes them self dependant.

Friends
They choose their friends very carefully. Quality matters more than quantity, that's why they small social circle. They are loving, caring and understanding and prefer those people who share same qualities with them.

They Take Time
Time is their best medicine. Their patience allow them to boost up. By taking time and being alone makes them happy.

Know that Alone and lonely are two different things and introverts are alone. Never mistake to judge them as a weak person because they are mentally strong. Appreciate introverts in your surroundings because they are peace makers and peace lovers.

How Parents Ruin Their Children Lives

Being Parent is a hard responsibility. Every parent wants best for their children but in this case good and bad are relative. Every Parent want their children to grow healthy, happy and successful. But Parents neglect to give their kids what they need for alot of reasons. Some parents are so confused that they even don't know about which way is right and some parents are so careless that they don't care about what their kids are doing. Some psychological, social and physical habits of parents that leads to ruin their children are:

Not Setting Boundaries
It's important to set boundaries for children. Parents need to teach their kids when and how to enter someone's room. Mostly kids never knock at the door and enters the room and parents avoid it because of their childish behavior but it goes with them for the whole life. When they become teenager, Parents will never want their kids to enter their personal space and also kids wants their personal space.

Punishment
Some Parents actually stereotype Parents believes in the concept of punishment. They take toys from their kids until or unless they don't follow the rules. This never works because they get used to it and also it affects their mental health.

Over Caring
Parents are not going to be with their children always. They know it but they never teach them how to live on their own. Too much caring makes children weak.

Doesn't Allow Children to Choose Their Future
Some Parents failed to achieve what they wanted and then they expect it from their children to become that and never realized what talent their kid have and what he wants to do. By not allowing their children to do what they want, parents ruin the whole life of children without even realizing it.

Every Single Detail is not for Sharing

We all have person in our life whom we trust alot and comfortability level between you and them is so high that you share even your intimate moments with them. This is because we fully trust them and their judgements.

But the bitter fact about human nature is that it craves companionship. It's with the people we share a great bond and innermost feelings. It's good to have such kind of people but one must not tell everything to others.  Your personal life should be personal. Even Cat which is known as Aunt of lion didn't teach it how to climb a tree. Cat keeps somethings to herself so that she can protect her.

Here are Somethings you should keep to yourself:

Goals Of Life
You never know what future holds for you and because of this reason you should keep your goals to yourself, so when you change them with time no one can criticize you.

Personal Life
Sharing Your Personal Life with others is an immature move to take. Your Family Problems are also your personal problems. When you share with your personal problems with others who loves you alot, might affect their personal lives and may harm your relationship with them.

Good Deeds
The World needs act of kindness but it doesn't need promotion.

Your Finances and Earnings
This must be your confidential detail. Jealousy is factor that everyone holds. Some might be able to control it but not everyone. Some people may not have great finances and might feel unfortunated and obviously no one wants to be the reason for someone's sadness.


Sharing your memories, moments with others is a beautiful thing but it is not necessary to share your every small detail about you. It is healthy to keep somethings to yourself.

Say Good-bye To Ego

An Ego is a term which is hard to explain because it is different for every person. Many people spend their whole lives being driven by it and some don't even know about it. Ego is not positive because it tell you about the things that make you superior such as "I'm always right." Not only superior, it also gives the concept of inferiority like "I am not good enough" or "no one loves me". It also makes your life dramatic because it explodes with emotions like anger and jealousy. It is an attachment that make you feel worthless every single time. For Example, your friend got a new bicycle and when you demand it from your parents and they say we can't afford it, your reaction would be "life is unfair". It's not you who is saying this,it's an Ego who is saying this. Your Reaction should be "it's okay, there are many people who don't have bicycle but I have".

So How to Get Rid Of it:

Self-Awareness
Know Your Worth. Stop Complaining, Act Humble, stay grateful, stay loving. Don't go for negative thoughts. Bring Some Positivity in life. Be Happy for your Friends Achievements. Congratulate them. Meet Poor People, talk to them. Give Food to Beggars. Whenever you look at someone who is better than you, remember that you are also better than anyone else. It's not a one day habit, it's a process and will take time. Be patient and Practice it.

Stars Shine in Darkness

OMG, they are so popular, they are so good at work, they are excellent students, they are good employees, they are the best. Everyone Focus so much on "They". Yes, they are popular but you are too. If not you will be. Stop underestimating your worth by looking at "Them". They may have many more than you but you also have more than someone else. If you'll get the things in hand without any hardwork you'll realize the value of it. Your struggle, patience and hard work is going to make you Shine. Always remember Stars Shine in darkness and darkness in your life is preparing you for shining.

Ways To Become Smarter

In a World full of myths, IQ level is also a Myth. It is believed since centuries that IQ and Talents are god-gifted but actually they are not. Here are some easy ways to become more smarter than before:

Write
Everyday we learn many things. For example, a new word or a new game or a new name...it can be anything. Make it habit to write at least 150 Words Everyday on things that You learn.
Make a list of things that you achieved. Try to recognize your small achievements. For Example, giving a tip to waiter makes him happy, and God has given you a chance to make Someone Happy or Bring a Smile Someone's face is an achievement. You did it. Write it down.

Have Smart Friends
Our Surroundings Affect us very strongly. So it is very important to notice that what we have in our company. Try to make optimist Friends. The people who are always willing to learn.

Read
Reading is the best way to learn things fast. It is therapeutic in nature. Read the books of your favorite genres e.g 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People, The Art Of Not Giving a F**k, The Song Of Ice and Fire or if u have nothing then read newspaper. It helps in solving problems, recognizing issues, understanding Humans and many more.

Exercise
Yes, it is solution for every problem. Make it a habit. If you are too busy in life than Do it for only 15 minutes. It not only makes you physically strong but also mentally strong. It improves memory, boost up your mood.

Learn a new language
According to the research, People who know more than one language are good at solving puzzles. It is best tool to sharp your memory. It also makes your Resume Better. It's always a Win-win Approach.